☹ Dealbreakers ☹

I do have some turn-offs, pet peeves and non-negotiables… If any of these apply to you, we probably shouldn’t get too attached to each other.

Turn-Offs
(these things typically make me instantly get “the ick” and usually there isn’t really room to recover)

• people that are on their phone too much in front of you instead of talking to you
• people that are rude to service workers
• people that don’t make effort to get to know your friends when introduced; are quiet and seem disinterested
• people pleasers; people that are constantly saying what they think you want to hear, whether or not it’s the truth; JUST BE REAL!
• people that don’t put effort into special occasions; I like celebrating and going all out for birthdays, holidays, anniversaries; we need more celebration in life and an excuse to do something special!!! I don’t want to be with someone that wouldn’t remember those dates/wouldn’t see the point in celebrating

Pet Peeves
(these things annoy me but someone could maybe still redeem themselves from these offenses)

• when people cancel plans at the last minute or tell you they’re going to be late at the last minute
• when people bring their pets everywhere
• when my partner doesn’t notice when I’ve changed something about my appearance (my nails, my hair, my makeup, etc.) … it makes me feel unseen and unappreciated
• when people seem to have such an “unpredictable schedule” they can’t even tell you the next time they’ll be able to see you; every hangout is a sudden plan, there’s never much notice… it makes me feel like I’m an afterthought and not priority enough to make time for

Non-Negotiables
(more serious items)

• I will not waste time on anyone that thinks negging is flirting or puts me down/belittles me in any way.
• I will not entertain anyone that’s a bigot.
• I don’t like liars.. I think lying is the most disrespectful thing you can do to a partner.. I hate lying and I hate the paranoia that sets in when you have to try and figure out/prove that someone’s lying. It’s evil! I won’t tolerate it!
• There needs to always be open dialogue, honest communication and transparency regarding sexual health and wellness.
• I can’t be with anyone that’s asexual or even sorta close to being that way. Sorry…

Think these are totally reasonable and you find my stunning sincerity cute?
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